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Office Christmas Party

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Yes it’s that time again…ho ho’s, tinsel, maxed-out cards and the dreaded Office Christmas…ahem…HOLIDAY or winter season ‘christmaskwanzasolsticka’ celebration, if you’re PC.
So let’s talk about how NOT to make an ass of yourself at this year’s office party.
Now though they call it a “party”, these events are really part of work and should be treated as such. It is however, important that you go, if you want to be considered part of the company, a “works-well-with-others sort of chap, or just to be considered for future raises and rises in responsibility. Read More

Rise in Love, Fall in Hate

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We hear the term ‘falling in love” so often and it’s something we have all done to some degree or at least fantasized about. We are certainly never ashamed to admit we are falling, or have fallen in love.
Rarely, however, do you ever hear anyone talk about “falling in hate”. Yet we all do it. Maybe we don’t admit it to ourselves and that is why we never talk about it. Read More

Family Frustrations

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Well kiddies it is November…already! I know it can be a depressing month, Summer is definitely over, no matter how long our Indian Summer was, Halloween is over and now nothing to look forward to but the dreaded Year- end Holidays. Read More

Toys For Boys

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Toy Box

I was watching Shameless recently and got a big kick out of watching them shop for toys. You know the kind of toys that only adults are supposed to play with? Rubbery, jiggly, vibrat-ey things! I started chatting on line to local singles about them and we had a crazy fun time! This inspired me to write this blog about toys! What kind of toys have you played with or what would you play with? Do you even know the world of amazing sex toys that is currently available to you? Read More

50 Ways To Please Your Lover

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Well I certainly like that better than ‘leave your lover’. Well this doesn’t specifically list fifty ways to please your lover; it will certainly give you the ground work for lots and lots, which could technically be considered fifty. Hell, even the Christian bible states forty days and nights as an abbreviation for lots and lots so why can’t I? *wink*

I’ve been reading about pleasure zones and ways to please a man and learned many things I’d love to share with you. They are often called ‘erogenous zones’ they have been used for, well as long as we naked apes have been pleasuring each other. As skilled in bed as one might be, there’s always room for improvement. So here are a few things to consider when looking for ways to please your lover. Read More

Diss the Temper

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Temper temper…please?

Have you a problem with your temper?  It seems many people do. I must confess I do find it a bit of a turn-on sometimes when certain objects of my affection are tempestuous and passionate. Is that twisted? Well, like it or not, one can’t control what turns us on.

But can we control our tempers? When I get angry I feel like the kid in Firestarter, that shit builds up and builds up and it has to…well; GO somewhere!  Someone get me a tub of water to aim my rage at ‘cuz it is coming out! Read More

His Lyin’ Eyes

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Your Lyin’ eyes

You can’t hide your lyin’ eyes

And your smile is a thin disguise

Thought by now, you’d realize

There aint no way to hide your lyin’ eyes.

The Eagles

Well bad grammar aside, is this true? Do you know when you are being lied to? Because truth is, I sure have a hard time realizing I am being lied to when my emotions are in the way. In fact we can often lie to ourselves when emotions are involved. We may want something so badly to be real and true that we will lie or accept a lie to create the illusion. It is just another strange but true fact of being human. Read More

Top Knot-ch

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Well I’ve avoided it long enough. It’s time for a discussion of the top knot hairdo on men.  It appears to be here to stay, for at least longer than I thought it would stick around. Especially since Mattel has decided to honor it with a Top Knot Ken doll! Read More

Take me to School

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Back to school

Just because you don’t have to board the long (or short!), yellow bus to school every day, doesn’t mean you should ever stop learning! Learning is to the brain as air to the lungs and good, whole, plant-based food to the body. It is essential for growth, both intellectual and spiritual. Learning comes from a myriad of sources. See? MYRIAD…I loves me some learnin! Read More