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Sexy style

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It’s all in the delivery and often just knowing what to wear to catch the attention of that certain someone, or even some ‘ones’, as the case may be, is the key to success. Here’s some popular suggestions:

I never know what to wear and sometimes my mood is not the right way to dress myself as I end up with a tank top and purple boots with stirrup pants and that isn’t attracting anyone except a psycho or two. While in a chat room looking for local singles, take a poll of your own and see just what clothes are the tops in the opposite sex attractor division!
Here’s what I have found;
What men like to see on other men: Read More

Love is all around…

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…no need to waste it…now an image of young Mary Tyler Moore throwing her hat in the air is going to be stuck in your head all day!
But what I really want to talk about is ROMANCE!
First of all, what does ‘romantic’ even mean? When I think of a romantic, the first thing that pops in my mind is Pepe le Pew, that amorous little skunk who falls in love with everything from a bunny to a cat, as long as it somehow, conveniently has a white streak painted down it’s back. Deus a machina. Let’s face it; some of us are just desperate to be in love.
But how did this notion of romance survive all these years of human evolution, societal changes and now with pornography so easy to access, just what is it about romance that makes us still crave it? Well first of all; it feels good! It colours everything pink and blue and purple and gives us the warm-fuzzies. It makes us feel life is a wonderful adventure and not just drudgery. Is it any wonder I want you all to feel some romance in your day-to day? Read More

Love hurts, but should it?

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‘The difference between like, love and in love, is the same difference between; for now, for a while and forever”

Ah the multi-faceted, many headed monster we call love. There are so many ways to feel and so few clues to help us understand that heady, light-headed, heart-pounding feeling we get when we are with that certain someone. Often we get feelings for people we really don’t know at all. For example; teachers, bosses, celebrities, people who we see in a certain way and often our feelings are our own projections as to who and what they are. We fantasize relationships, have whole conversations in our heads, but when we actually meet the real person and see them for who they are, they are rarely anything like we thought. Other times we see someone every day and develop a crush on them, which really is, well a crushing feeling. Just what is the difference between love, infatuation and a crush?


‘Early in the morning I can’t sleep
I can’t work and I can’t eat
I’ve been drunk all day, can’t concentrate
Maybe I’m making a big mistake
Caught me down like a killer shark
It’s like a railroad running right through my heart
Jekyll and Hyde the way I behave
Feel like I’m running on an empty gauge
Oh no not again
It hurts so good
I don’t understand

Sounds familiar? Well that’s infatuation….at least according to Rod Stewart. Though it does seem pretty accurate to those of us who have felt it.
Infatuation is the state of being completely lost in the emotion of unreasoning desire. It can be very painful and more often than not never ends in a very satisfying relationship. It is often based on an unreasonable or unrealistic idea of the object of your infatuation. An infatuation can build up over a long period of time and can be maintained, with little to no actual romantic interaction between you. There are even extreme cases of people becoming violent toward the object of their infatuation after confessing their feelings to them and finding out lo and behold that the object is totally oblivious to those feelings and worse, doesn’t return them. Infatuation is generally an unhealthy type of love and one that should be avoided. If you feel yourself attracted to someone, for goodness sake, ask them out! Don’t let fear get the better of you and turn a healthy attraction into a dangerous obsession. If the person isn’t available, then let it go. There is just no sense in harboring feelings for someone that simply cannot or will not return them. Thankfully most people will let go of an infatuation once they actually got to know the person.
A crush

A crush is a much milder form of infatuation. It’s like a crash crush It is often something we can easily admit to, it is more playful and can be quite fun to have some crushes on people we admire here and there. As long s we don’t let it fester. There can be non-sexual crushes we feel for our heroes and people we admire, often it is of very short duration.

“I miss the old days where if you liked someone, all you had to do was chase them around the playground.”

Yeah love can sure be complicated. I see so many of my friends get caught up in confusion over their feelings. Whether what you feel is infatuation, a crush or true love, the best thing you can do is enjoy while it makes you feel good and know when to let it go when it is tearing you up. Life is just too short to cause yourself misery. And you, my kiddies deserve all the love in the world!

Have you been “phubbing” your man?

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…and didn’t even know it?


Are you competing with your boyfriend’s smartphone? How can a piece of soulless machinery possibly be more interesting than you? The man they fell in love with? Does it have warm loving eyes to gaze into? Does it listen after a long day at work? Does it rub his back and other tasty and tempting areas?

NO! and yet…if you find yourself being ignored or not having those loving eyes met during a conversation, then you might be a victim of  dunh dunh DUUNNHHH….”PHUBBING”! Read More

How to Flirt With a Guy at the Gym

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The gym is a great place to find a guy with like-minded health/fitness goals or simply someone for a fling who stays in shape just like you. But flirting in the gym is often a no-no for some  men, as they understand certain guys can be uncomfortable with it. If you want to take the lead (hold for applause) there are some simple tactics to get a guy’s attention: Read More

Fall cuddly-buddies; might become your winter muffler

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Oh delicious cool and crisp autumn is here! There are so many activities that cause us to get closer. But beware what you might be setting yourself up for and decide if that is what you want before you get there.  These fall days set the tone for the winter to come and some guys may be seeking a stronger bond than you are ready for.

That being said; here are some great ideas for what to do in October! And some signs of moving forward that you need to be aware of (or maybe ‘beware’ of!). Read More