If you’re on a first (or later) date with a guy, it’s likely because you’re scoping him out to be a good boyfriend. But how does he stack up as a true candidate? We have some points of interest to help you figure out whether he’s boyfriend material or not. Read More
This post is a great pairing for “How to Date a Trans Guy.” The trans and bi identities are overlapped in many ways, which is probably why they’ve become such good allies for one another. While one is about gender expression and the other is about sexual orientation, both are largely treated like crap by the straight, gay and queer communities. Bi and trans people are seen as upholding binaries, yet treading in too many identities at once and trying to live as they are, but apparently what they are isn’t good enough. Read More
Okay, so in another article, “How to Tell If He’s Gay,” I feel like I came off slightly mean to gay-curious men. Certainly not my attention. I got so lost in ranting over straight men who infiltrate gay bars for free drinks that I forgot that some men come in and shake like leaves because mainstream society is stupid. I can’t blame you. It’s a scary world out there. Read More
